How much wood would a woodchuck chuck June 8, 2026 Many years ago, when I went to a psychotherapist, Miss Linda and I often discussed my financial situation. We chatted about how hard getting employed was for blind people. Back…
The Right to Take Up Space May 14, 2026 Recently, one of my friends arrived at my door, repeating over and over again, “I’m sorry. … I’m sorry for being late. … I’m sorry I didn’t knock. … I’m…
Invisible Contracts April 20, 2026 In When Helping Starts to Hurt, I explored when saying yes begins to feel heavy, when helping stretches beyond healthy and starts draining your energy. In When No One Asks,…
When No One Asks April 15, 2026 In the last blog, I wrote about how helping can quietly stretch beyond where helping belongs, and how easily care can move into something more without us realizing the shift….
When Helping Starts to Hurt April 7, 2026 There are moments in life when the heart leans forward before the mind has a chance to catch up. Someone says, “I’m not sure I’m okay,” and something inside rises…